Another post for the wonderful She Reads Truth, #SheSharesTruth
I used to recite my Awana memory verses to her. I was 5.
We lost touch.
I’m 26 now. (Today actually!:))
She’s the only Biblical Counselor in the area.
I’m studying to be one.
Last fall I attended a retreat she spoke at. By God’s sovereignty, she offered to meet and mentor me, and I agreed (honored, of course!)
This relationship, it was divinely orchestrated. Actually anything reflecting a discipleship or mentor relationship is part of that master plan. That master plan to mold us and shape us and refine us and change us and encourage us and grow us into the image of His Son. To teach us to live lives that honor the King.
Interwoven grace to help save us from ourselves.
Another picture of that redemption work. That work on the cross that touches every aspect of life.
There’s reason, there’s beautiful purpose for those relationships. Loving guidelines, love soaked truth, steering us from our natural tendencies.
We see a glimpse of one in Titus 2.
“Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.” Titus 2:3-5
I’m not married, I don’t have kids. It’s only partially a Titus 2 relationship for me. But it is a perfect relationship for the phase God has me in. And I am thankful beyond words.
I look forward to every coffee date. Our conversations about life never fail to encourage and bless. Conversations about counseling leave me inspired, educated, and hopeful.
Her love for the Lord is nothing short of what I strive for.
And when life encouragement is needed, she’s there.
Recently, after struggling with a couple difficult and painful relationships, she wisely spoke these words to me:
“It was a tool. They were tools. Those people. That time period. Meant to refine you. It was all for a purpose, a specific, divine purpose. Part of His story. No more, no less. And now He is finished using those tools.”
“He cast that drama with those chosen characters and it was not a mistake.” (More on this here.)
I could almost physically feel my burden lift with those few, divinely ordained, spoken words.
Perhaps the Lord is so gracious to give us just what we need in the moment, in the season. The person, the words, the encouragement.
Perhaps His love for us and knowledge of us extends far beyond our own.
Perhaps His grace is abounding far more than we will ever know or see.
Perhaps community, the body of Christ is far more important than we will ever understand.
It may not look like another’s grace-moment. The words, the person, the encouragement, the relationships are different, because the stories are different.
But it’s perfect.
This sovereign plan, this work of the Holy Spirit in her life, in my life.
This gift. These gifts.
Leaves me awe-struck.
Praise God from whom all blessings flow.
They come in the most unexpected forms at the most unexpected times, amen?:)
The perfect forms at the perfect times.
When we don’t even know what we need. When we don’t even realize we need it.
What perfect gifts at the perfect times has He blessed you with whether it be words, a person, or otherwise?